Today would have been our 45th wedding anniversary.
One year back I wrote a post on this day: Time Heals nothing ( Do read it to know a little more about my beautiful and talented wife). On one hand it looks like it was just yesterday and on the other it looks ages ago! So much has happened …
I have been wondering how would she have reacted to Corona. She was very creative and filled with love. She was very pragmatic too. With Godβs grace our son has got the best of both of us – so one can say he is doing what she would have ππ It is such a blessing to have loving children around and three generations to be living together π Am so thankful to Gautam and Rashmi for what all they have done in the past 2-3 months.
Oh yes there is No Social distancing between Anita and me. There is no separation. We are as close today or rather closer than we ever were. The physical is such a tiny part of the Whole, of Universal Consciousness β LOVE. She lives in my heart – and not only mine; she lives in all the hearts she touched ππ
She is very much around me and in me π Let me share a story:
We have converted our old apartment in Pune, India into a meditation center for Yogoda Satsanga Society of India (SRF) My eldest sister visited us two years back and said that the center was done very beautifully; and if Anita was around everyone would have thought it was her work π Anita was very artistic and had good aesthetic sense. I think she must have worked through me or guided me from whatever dimension she is in now to get it done π
I am sure she is happy and spreading her love and joy even now, as she did when she was on our plane.
There is no Separation, no Isolation, no Desolation β when we have LOVE in our Hearts π π
Thank you so much for your visit to my blog and taking out time to read and comment. Much appreciated π
Very very emotional post Sir.
Thanks for the blessings, sirπ
That is so sweet of you Ramya. Thank you so much. Yes – Love is eternal π
Stay safe. Stay loved
I happened to read this, sir. Love tales such as yours is so hard to find now. I am so glad that you had been lucky to experience that kind of love. I could decipher how good a human, your wife was and you both you would have definitely complemented each other. True love lives on..
Thank you so much Suhani. Your wishes are so welcome ππ€
Wow this is so beautiful…she is so beautiful ,I’m so happy for you have such a positive attitude π€ happy anniversary to a lovely couple
And so are you my dear young friend ππ€ Thank you so much
Omg she is so beautiful… Her smile is full of simplicity β€οΈπ₯
Thank you so much Renee. I do miss her but am sure she is sharing her love even now – in whichever dimension she is now ππ€
What a lovely couple! She was beautiful! I know you miss her! π’
Thank you so much Cheryl for your reading and your kindness.
Love.
Stay safe. Stay blessed
A very beautiful tribute to your wife, Ashok. From your account, we know that she was as beautiful inside as she was on the outside. Lovely family photos! Best wishes, Cheryl β€
My pleasure Shikha π
Oh thanks for notifying…. I guess I messed up somewhere… Have rectified this now…. Thanks again
Sure… Will do so…. Healing vibes to youπΌπΌ
The url in the blog from where you commented is different; it is peakspeak. WordPress.com
If you want to know more about my dear wife, do check out the link in this post : Time Heals Nothing π
https://onepeakperformance.wordpress.com
When I try to go to your blog from here I always get the same message – it doesnβt exist π€
It was a pleasure reading it… Thanks to you indeedπΌ
Thank you so much π
Such a wonderful post ππ
Thank you so much Anjali. Yes she was – beautiful inside out ππ
This is a beautiful post sir β€οΈ Ma’am was so beautiful π
Thank you so much my dear friend. Yes our love shall grow stronger. Where she is now there is nothing but love π
You need to read my post : Time Heals Nothing
OMG! Reading this post really made my day even more better, Beautiful Post & your wife was cherry on the cake. I can’t take my eyes off her she’s soooo stunning ππ
After reading this I can definitely say that you are the Luckiest husband in the world. Wishing You A Lifetime Of Happiness Together And A Love That Grows Stronger With Each Passing Day.
Thank you so much Manasa. I appreciate it π
Wow, it is heart touching! Wonderfully described. I can feel your emotions and overwhelm the way you described. π
Thank you so much Dakshina. Incidentally our sonβs name is Gautam π
So beautifully written, so beautiful relationship and so beautiful people π
My pleasure π
Thank you for the duas.
God be with you always my friend
Yes. I agree. I believe memories let you carry on in life and to me memories are the driving force. Youβre having the most precious of all possessions. All other things can be taken away but Memories are something no one can take away from you.
I have always invested more time and energy into creating memories and experiences and much lesser into possessions. I have no regrets. Am sure you being Binte Bashir, would agree to that π
Thank you so much Binte Bashir π
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How sweet and memorable is that. Youβve made long lasting precious memories.
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Thatβs an Arabic term for the word βdaughter ofβ. I use that as my name pen name.
So true Binte (I hope it is your name)
Thank you so much for your kind words
The pictures you shared tell the love story between you and her. Specially the first one where you seem to be admiring her.
True love doesnβt die even after the beloved is not with you. Infact that is what true love is, one doesnβt really need the physical presence and yours is true one.
Thank you so much my friend
She is so beautiful….and the love of both of you are eternal.
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Such a heartwarming post. Such a beautiful tribute to your wife
Yeah.. Age, marks are just a number π π
Thank you so much Cherryl π€π€
Thank you so much my dear young friend ππ€
Age is just a Number π
What an amazing tribute to your beloved wife… Big hugs.
Such a inspiring message my friend …. πβ€π€π
Ly my new young friendπ….your young from heartβ€
Wow. God willing you shall visit soon and who knows we might even meet π
No social distancing, no isolation, Anita was beautiful indeed! One of my closest friends is from Pune! The hope was to visit one day post Covid!
That is so sweet my dear. No, it is never too late to wish and to love and to be happy. Good things with hugs is that you canβt give one without getting it back π€π€ Thank you so much
Such lovely pictures! A big hug to you for being so positive! I think I’m too late to wish you a happy anniversary, but then you don’t need a particular day to celebrate your love, do you!
Take care of yourself and stay safe ashokji
Thank you so much Noorien π
So inspiring β€π€
Always welcome:))
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Very sweet β€
Thank you so much my friend ππ€
Wow she looks so beautiful, and what a lovely post!
Very well.
True. But when we are a little more spiritual it helps
You’re welcome
Of course, but such reality is hard to accept. Even if we know nothing at all about the future, we’re sure we will all die one day but it doesn’t make it any easier when someone we love dies.
Thank you so much
Such is life π
Very touching. Sorry for your loss.
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Love is everything . Beautiful inspiring story . Thank you.
Thank you so much for your time and beautiful thoughts my friend π
Love truly lives forever and keeps us close to those we love . Thank you for sharing her inspiring story . Her legacy and memory will live on to every heart she touched.π
Pleasure π
Thanks
Thank you so much Robins and all the best
Great message and thank you for the follow read,like and spread the word of the story of an African teen
Thank you so much Ronit. So sweet of you
Pure and lovely words to describe your beautiful journey…. True love Sir. As usual your very lovely snaps summarizes the beauty of eternal love. Stay safe Sir.
Thank you so much for your kind words my friend. God be with you
Ashok, your words convey the richness of your lives together. You are right in expressing that she still lives very close to your heart. Thanks for sharing this message of unconditional love.
Oh, yeah I keep coming across news of Maharashtra, that’s why I asked. Don’t worry Uncle just stay at home and pray for the situation to get better.π
Pune is still not so good Sushmita.
Whole thing started with Lunar eclipse of 10th January π
Ohhhhh yesss!!! Right now the planetary positions are in the reverse direction due to which all these situations has arisen. I too have faith in the astrological calculations and the like.π Thank you Ashok Uncle, for letting me informed about the position of Rahu. And unlocking is required for the sake of many as majority is dependent on the wage system, cause a large section of the population is engaged in the unorganised informal sector. How’s the situation in Pune now ?
We need to keep praying Sushmita. Unlocking is going to be more painful.
Shall I tell you the secret of 23rd September π
It is the day Rahu leaves planet Mercury π
23rd September? How can you be so particular not only with the month but also with the date Ashok Uncleπ and you are very right this lockdown has actually brought in the stillness and peace across this country. Hopefully this unlock one also works out well for everyone.
God willing all shall be well soon. I think 23rd September is the day: after that things should improve fast.
I am enjoying this period : love the stillness and the peace π
Sure Ashok Uncle, just pray that we all get accustomed to this new normal, and things get better. Well I have been to Pune 3yrs ago, the city is well planned with a moderate climate, I wish I knew that there live such kind hearted souls as well.
I would love it Sushmita. And would love to meet you. Am so happy that you addressed me as uncle ππ€
You can plan a visit to Pune to meet me π
You’re welcome.
Thank you so much Zina. Yes, am blessed π
A beautiful , heart touching and warming eternal relationship Ashokji. The epitome of true love . You are truly blessed π
That’s so kind of you Ashok uncle.π If I visit to Pune then surely I will come to your mediation centre as well.π
I bless and pray for all who cross my path Sushmita. Some who are receptive receive more π
Thank you so much my friend π
Thank you so much π
Thank you so much Kevin. Hope all is well with you
Thank you so much Nippy. A big hug π€
Thts really so sweet of you tht u kept her in ur hrt ,now Thts called true luv for sure she is always thr bless u πsuch a beautiful post ππ
Beautiful as always my friend. Those who we have loved are always with us. Of this I have no doubt. I enjoyed the pictures as well. Thank you for sharing.
Beautiful post.very well narrated
She was beautiful inside and out. What a touching tribute!
Thank you so much for your blessings π you are very elder to me and getting blessings from such a kind and positive person like you is a matter of great fortune for me π may your meditation centre radiate the positive vibes to everyone.
Thank you so much Sushmita. It is so awesome that you remember the old post too. Love and blessings
The pictures are really beautiful β€οΈ
A year ago I read your thoughtful message for your beloved wife, and your words were so powerful that when I got the notification and saw your name the entire article came into my mind which you had written down last year, same day, and once again today, these words of yours have touched my soul, your love for her is immortal, she is alive through your words. God bless you π
Thank you so much Smita. When I was working in Gillette we were called βMade for each other couple! π
ππ Thank you so much Florence
Aunty was so beautiful Uncle .. you both looked like made for each other .. I am sure she is always with you and around you
Aunty was so beautiful Uncle .. you both looked like made for each other .. I am sure she is always with you and around you
She’s such a cute sweetheart. God bless her soul as she rests on.
Thank you so much my friend π
So so beautiful β€οΈ
Thank you so much my dear friend. Am so glad to know that you are regular meditator. Nagpur Kendra is very vibrant
Pune main center is on Law College Road and our satellite center is in Kalyani Nagar
Would love to see you there
Thank you so much Sudha. You would have loved meeting her
Thank you so much Himangi. We are all interconnected ππ
Thank you so much Medhaji. Appreciate it π
Dear friend….late chi sow Anita was a gem of a person..God likes those,,who r liked by all..
Setting up of a Yss dhyan center is the best tribute to her memory…( pl.gve add.so that we can visit whn in Pune.)
Pl.take care of yrself..She is wth u always & all ways.
Bye 4 nw = Wyawahares @ Nagpur ( 9860364956 )
Ps..m a regular attendi 2 sunday Yss center here at Bajajnagar nr to our home in Ramdaspeth..(8 to 10 am)….@
Beautiful post. I remember reading your earlier post. Very touching.
Beautiful pictures. I have not met her in person, but I can imagine. She radiates love. God bless. Take care.
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This is so beautifully written Uncle and I admire the simplicity with which you explain so many things. I am sure Aunty is helping you through this medium too just like my Mom is helping me in whatever way possible. π
Ashokji, beautiful pictures, more beautiful words and most beautiful feelings in this blog!
You are always welcome dear Ashok πππ. Have a wonderful day ππππ
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Thank you so much Liz. Appreciate this.
God be with you all and us
Thank you so much Lia. Appreciate this.
Thank you so much Nanette. Love is all there is
Thank you so much for your kind words Kamal and your love and wishes
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Thank you so much Sri for your love and remembrance
Thank you so much my dearest princess. Ameen π
Thank you so much Lavina. Love ππ€
Thank you so much Sumita. Appreciate this.
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Thank you so much Sonal. Appreciate this.
Of course – my blessings and God bless you
Thank you so much Rita . Appreciate this.
Thank you so much Sohanpreet Appreciate this. Only love π
Thank you so much Gautam. Appreciate this.
Heartfelt posts, Ashok (from last year as well)…a beautiful story of love, belief & trust…thx for sharingβ€οΈ
Such a loving tribute to your beautiful wife.
Things seem better here now and life is beginning to creep back to a sense of normality but there is still a ways to go.
So beautiful, heartwarming and inspiring. Thank you for sharing this wonderful shining tribute to and example of true love. β€οΈπ
Love knows no boundaries and her love will have flowed through you in creating your beautiful center. You were both lucky to have found the perfect love in life and have a good outcome for your children. Blessings to you.
Love that always will be between two souls who love each other unconditionally. Beautiful pictures Ashok of you, your wife and your son. Such a lovely and profound read, thank you so much for this wonderful share. As you rightly said she is always there with you and your family in spirit.
This brought Smile to my lips. Thanks Sir
Uncle while reading the entire remembrance of Aunty rolled through my eyes….she’s Awesome…she would have taken Covid positively and would have created something new…..she’s unforgettable and so are you…..lots of love and prayer
Peace unto her π
It is said soul connection become more vivid after physical separation.
She is nearer than ever.
May she always rest in peace πβπ·ππΉπ
π such a powerful connection with your beloved!! You personify the statement – Love is all there is π
Beautiful thoughts. Happy Anniversary. Stay blessed.
Love prevails everywhere..π
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Waaaw….. i loved this postβ€οΈππ…. happy anniversary dear sir…. best wishes….. β€οΈ
Need ur blessingsππ
Loved your touching post. You were truly a made for each other couple. So elegant and your artistic home.
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You both look great!! She is absolutely beautiful π₯°. Happy anniversary to you Ashok Ji..
Only love..π..
Truly appreciate your loving thoughts for Anita,making your love eternal for each other.
God bless.
Yes my dear Clau ππ€
Thank you so much Mithu π€
Thank you so much Jyot π€
Only love, always love ππΌ
Beautiful post written by a beautiful human being about a beautiful person and a wonderful soul π.
Lots of love to you & buji much regards
Beautiful words Ashokjiπ₯°. Happy Anniversary. Stay blessedπ€
Thank you so much Surjitji. She learned a lot from you too π
Thank you so much my dear π€
Thank you so much my dear friends. I have great memories of the time we spent together. It was very special
She was an amazing lady who touched all our lives . Learnt so much from her. Thankful that we could spend a few years in pune with her . Lots of love Ashokji you are lovely person to keep her memory alive . Bless you
Thank you so much Perth Girl. Hope all is well in your part of the world
Ashok ji, your touching tribute to your beloved wife is a befitting rememberance on your wedding anniversary. I remember her as such a talented and soft spoken lady. It’s nice that children have Imbibed her lofty qualities π
Thank you so much Tangie. Appreciate this π
Beautiful uncle π
We spent many years together at Ranchi. Her memory is still very bright in our mind. A very graceful and ever smiling and good human being.
Peace to her wherever she is !!
A beautiful post π
This is such an inspring message and prayers to you. Have a wonderful day.