No Separationβ€” No Social distancing β€” Only Love πŸ’•

Today would have been our 45th wedding anniversary.

One year back I wrote a post on this day: Time Heals nothing ( Do read it to know a little more about my beautiful and talented wife). On one hand it looks like it was just yesterday and on the other it looks ages ago! So much has happened …

I have been wondering how would she have reacted to Corona. She was very creative and filled with love. She was very pragmatic too. With God’s grace our son has got the best of both of us – so one can say he is doing what she would have πŸ˜ŠπŸ’• It is such a blessing to have loving children around and three generations to be living together πŸ™ Am so thankful to Gautam and Rashmi for what all they have done in the past 2-3 months.

Oh yes there is No Social distancing between Anita and me. There is no separation. We are as close today or rather closer than we ever were. The physical is such a tiny part of the Whole, of Universal Consciousness β€” LOVE. She lives in my heart – and not only mine; she lives in all the hearts she touched πŸ’–πŸ’–

She is very much around me and in me 😊 Let me share a story:

We have converted our old apartment in Pune, India into a meditation center for Yogoda Satsanga Society of India (SRF) My eldest sister visited us two years back and said that the center was done very beautifully; and if Anita was around everyone would have thought it was her work 😊 Anita was very artistic and had good aesthetic sense. I think she must have worked through me or guided me from whatever dimension she is in now to get it done πŸ˜‚

I am sure she is happy and spreading her love and joy even now, as she did when she was on our plane.

There is no Separation, no Isolation, no Desolation β€” when we have LOVE in our Hearts πŸ’• πŸ’–

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  1. I happened to read this, sir. Love tales such as yours is so hard to find now. I am so glad that you had been lucky to experience that kind of love. I could decipher how good a human, your wife was and you both you would have definitely complemented each other. True love lives on..

  2. Wow this is so beautiful…she is so beautiful ,I’m so happy for you have such a positive attitude πŸ€— happy anniversary to a lovely couple

  3. Thank you so much Renee. I do miss her but am sure she is sharing her love even now – in whichever dimension she is now πŸ’–πŸ€—

  4. Thank you so much my dear friend. Yes our love shall grow stronger. Where she is now there is nothing but love πŸ’•
    You need to read my post : Time Heals Nothing

  5. OMG! Reading this post really made my day even more better, Beautiful Post & your wife was cherry on the cake. I can’t take my eyes off her she’s soooo stunning 😍😍
    After reading this I can definitely say that you are the Luckiest husband in the world. Wishing You A Lifetime Of Happiness Together And A Love That Grows Stronger With Each Passing Day.

  6. Yes. I agree. I believe memories let you carry on in life and to me memories are the driving force. You’re having the most precious of all possessions. All other things can be taken away but Memories are something no one can take away from you.

  7. I have always invested more time and energy into creating memories and experiences and much lesser into possessions. I have no regrets. Am sure you being Binte Bashir, would agree to that 😊

  8. The pictures you shared tell the love story between you and her. Specially the first one where you seem to be admiring her.
    True love doesn’t die even after the beloved is not with you. Infact that is what true love is, one doesn’t really need the physical presence and yours is true one.

  9. No social distancing, no isolation, Anita was beautiful indeed! One of my closest friends is from Pune! The hope was to visit one day post Covid!

  10. That is so sweet my dear. No, it is never too late to wish and to love and to be happy. Good things with hugs is that you can’t give one without getting it back πŸ€—πŸ€— Thank you so much

  11. Such lovely pictures! A big hug to you for being so positive! I think I’m too late to wish you a happy anniversary, but then you don’t need a particular day to celebrate your love, do you!
    Take care of yourself and stay safe ashokji

  12. Of course, but such reality is hard to accept. Even if we know nothing at all about the future, we’re sure we will all die one day but it doesn’t make it any easier when someone we love dies.

  13. Love truly lives forever and keeps us close to those we love . Thank you for sharing her inspiring story . Her legacy and memory will live on to every heart she touched.πŸ™

  14. Pure and lovely words to describe your beautiful journey…. True love Sir. As usual your very lovely snaps summarizes the beauty of eternal love. Stay safe Sir.

  15. Ashok, your words convey the richness of your lives together. You are right in expressing that she still lives very close to your heart. Thanks for sharing this message of unconditional love.

  16. Oh, yeah I keep coming across news of Maharashtra, that’s why I asked. Don’t worry Uncle just stay at home and pray for the situation to get better.πŸ™

  17. Ohhhhh yesss!!! Right now the planetary positions are in the reverse direction due to which all these situations has arisen. I too have faith in the astrological calculations and the like.😊 Thank you Ashok Uncle, for letting me informed about the position of Rahu. And unlocking is required for the sake of many as majority is dependent on the wage system, cause a large section of the population is engaged in the unorganised informal sector. How’s the situation in Pune now ?

  18. We need to keep praying Sushmita. Unlocking is going to be more painful.
    Shall I tell you the secret of 23rd September 😊
    It is the day Rahu leaves planet Mercury 😊

  19. 23rd September? How can you be so particular not only with the month but also with the date Ashok UncleπŸ˜… and you are very right this lockdown has actually brought in the stillness and peace across this country. Hopefully this unlock one also works out well for everyone.

  20. God willing all shall be well soon. I think 23rd September is the day: after that things should improve fast.
    I am enjoying this period : love the stillness and the peace 😊

  21. Sure Ashok Uncle, just pray that we all get accustomed to this new normal, and things get better. Well I have been to Pune 3yrs ago, the city is well planned with a moderate climate, I wish I knew that there live such kind hearted souls as well.

  22. I would love it Sushmita. And would love to meet you. Am so happy that you addressed me as uncle πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—
    You can plan a visit to Pune to meet me 😊

  23. A beautiful , heart touching and warming eternal relationship Ashokji. The epitome of true love . You are truly blessed πŸ™

  24. Thts really so sweet of you tht u kept her in ur hrt ,now Thts called true luv for sure she is always thr bless u πŸ˜‡such a beautiful post 😍😍

  25. Beautiful as always my friend. Those who we have loved are always with us. Of this I have no doubt. I enjoyed the pictures as well. Thank you for sharing.

  26. Thank you so much for your blessings πŸ™ you are very elder to me and getting blessings from such a kind and positive person like you is a matter of great fortune for me 😊 may your meditation centre radiate the positive vibes to everyone.

  27. A year ago I read your thoughtful message for your beloved wife, and your words were so powerful that when I got the notification and saw your name the entire article came into my mind which you had written down last year, same day, and once again today, these words of yours have touched my soul, your love for her is immortal, she is alive through your words. God bless you πŸ™

  28. Thank you so much Smita. When I was working in Gillette we were called β€˜Made for each other couple! 😊

  29. Aunty was so beautiful Uncle .. you both looked like made for each other .. I am sure she is always with you and around you

  30. Aunty was so beautiful Uncle .. you both looked like made for each other .. I am sure she is always with you and around you

  31. Thank you so much my dear friend. Am so glad to know that you are regular meditator. Nagpur Kendra is very vibrant
    Pune main center is on Law College Road and our satellite center is in Kalyani Nagar
    Would love to see you there

  32. Dear friend….late chi sow Anita was a gem of a person..God likes those,,who r liked by all..
    Setting up of a Yss dhyan center is the best tribute to her memory…( pl.gve that we can visit whn in Pune.)
    Pl.take care of yrself..She is wth u always & all ways.
    Bye 4 nw = Wyawahares @ Nagpur ( 9860364956 )
    Ps..m a regular attendi 2 sunday Yss center here at Bajajnagar nr to our home in Ramdaspeth..(8 to 10 am)….@

  33. Beautiful post. I remember reading your earlier post. Very touching.
    Beautiful pictures. I have not met her in person, but I can imagine. She radiates love. God bless. Take care.

  34. This is so beautifully written Uncle and I admire the simplicity with which you explain so many things. I am sure Aunty is helping you through this medium too just like my Mom is helping me in whatever way possible. πŸ™

  35. Ashokji, beautiful pictures, more beautiful words and most beautiful feelings in this blog!

  36. Heartfelt posts, Ashok (from last year as well)…a beautiful story of love, belief & trust…thx for sharing❀️

  37. So beautiful, heartwarming and inspiring. Thank you for sharing this wonderful shining tribute to and example of true love. β€οΈπŸ™

  38. Love knows no boundaries and her love will have flowed through you in creating your beautiful center. You were both lucky to have found the perfect love in life and have a good outcome for your children. Blessings to you.

  39. Love that always will be between two souls who love each other unconditionally. Beautiful pictures Ashok of you, your wife and your son. Such a lovely and profound read, thank you so much for this wonderful share. As you rightly said she is always there with you and your family in spirit.

  40. Uncle while reading the entire remembrance of Aunty rolled through my eyes….she’s Awesome…she would have taken Covid positively and would have created something new…..she’s unforgettable and so are you…..lots of love and prayer

  41. Peace unto her πŸ’–
    It is said soul connection become more vivid after physical separation.
    She is nearer than ever.
    May she always rest in peace πŸ’–βš˜πŸŒ·πŸ’•πŸŒΉπŸ’–

  42. πŸ’— such a powerful connection with your beloved!! You personify the statement – Love is all there is πŸ’—

  43. Waaaw….. i loved this postβ€οΈπŸ’•πŸ’•…. happy anniversary dear sir…. best wishes….. ❀️

    Need ur blessingsπŸ™πŸ™‚

  44. Truly appreciate your loving thoughts for Anita,making your love eternal for each other.
    God bless.

  45. Beautiful post written by a beautiful human being about a beautiful person and a wonderful soul πŸ’•.
    Lots of love to you & buji much regards

  46. Thank you so much my dear friends. I have great memories of the time we spent together. It was very special

  47. She was an amazing lady who touched all our lives . Learnt so much from her. Thankful that we could spend a few years in pune with her . Lots of love Ashokji you are lovely person to keep her memory alive . Bless you

  48. Ashok ji, your touching tribute to your beloved wife is a befitting rememberance on your wedding anniversary. I remember her as such a talented and soft spoken lady. It’s nice that children have Imbibed her lofty qualities πŸ™

  49. We spent many years together at Ranchi. Her memory is still very bright in our mind. A very graceful and ever smiling and good human being.
    Peace to her wherever she is !!

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