Separation Hurts

It does. Separation from our Source, the source of all joy and happiness does hurt. And it is this separation that causes pain and unhappiness in our other relationships too.

Till the time we realise and live this truth: I and my Father are one; we can’t be truly happy.

Once we realise that He is the nearest of the near and dearest of the dear, no separation hurts. Once we start to see Him in all and love all — all separation ceases.

In my post: My Nature is Love I had talked about — Becoming Love. I think the process starts by loving our own selves first and then our immediate family. We keep expanding the circle of our love to include extended family and friends and then our community, city, country and the whole world- including all species. God IS Love and love is all there is.

This world is His dream and merely a Reality Show. Do your part well and above all love Him. Become Love. And you will see there is no separation and even the so called end, is so joyous…truly –happily ever after πŸ˜ŠπŸ’•

Once we become love we realise the truth: From Joy we come, in Joy we live and in that Sacred Joy we shall melt again πŸ’•πŸ’–πŸ’• – together in life and death …Never separate πŸ’•πŸ˜ŠπŸ’•

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  1. I read this just now and just a few minutes back I had written in Last Good Bye that you can look at my like your father πŸ˜ŠπŸ’–

  2. Am so touched Samreen. And can well imagine your being kind and compassionate.

    Am so very happy to connect with you more deeply. It is so motivating when one gets appreciation πŸ˜ŠπŸ‘πŸ€—

  3. Again I would say, pleasure is mine πŸ€—
    I am too a very compassionate person and I love to explore life and its meaning and connect too well with people who run parallel thoughts.
    Don’t feel hesitant as it’s actually your wisdom and love at the same time. Wisdom do comes from experiences and let me tell you, you are touching lives out there. πŸ˜ŠπŸ’–
    Thanks so so much for your wishes and I pray to Allah to give you and your family health and happiness. πŸ’œπŸ™‚βœ¨

  4. That is soooo sweet Samreen. Thank you soooooo muchhhhh πŸ’–πŸ€—

    One of my key objectives in starting the blog was to share my life experiences (I hesitate to call it wisdom) and love and compassion. Even if I can touch a few lives my effort would have been worth it.

    I am so glad that my thought process and words resonate with you Samreen. Thank you so much once again for your love.

    May God give you, your little one and the rest of your family abundant life πŸ˜ŠπŸ’–πŸ’πŸŽ‰πŸŒΉπŸ€—

  5. I am in awe of your pearls of wisdom.. πŸ˜ŠπŸ’–
    Whenever I buy a bit of time from my little one, I love to read your posts. Thanks for sharing with us. Take care πŸ€—πŸ™‚

  6. “Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him… We love because He first loved us. If anyone says, ‘I love God,’ yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen” (1 John 4: 16, 19-20). Unfortunately, I cannot agree that what we experience as reality is an illusion. We may be a thought in the mind of God. How He supports reality is beyond me. But Christ really died for our very real sins. And He took His scars to heaven. See,

  7. So so true… It’s only this separation that leads us to mourn other separations. When we’re attuned to the source everything appears to be perfectly in its place and time πŸ™πŸ™

  8. Thank you so much Rajashree for your reading and adding more to the meaning of the post.
    Stay safe. Stay happy 😊

  9. So true. I have realised it in my personal life too, that if you don’t love yourself, you end up failing to love and hurting those who love you. πŸ™‚ so beautiful.

  10. Wonderful thought. There is no love in man but when we attach ourselves to God whose nature is love, we love as well. Not like the world loves but as God loves. We really need to find our part back to our source to make our lives and our world great again.

  11. the corona virus kills’ 1% of the people with it people who died of natural causes but also had covid-19 hey said they died of corona virus this is confirmed there are not that many deaths

  12. Thank you so much Amy. It is so heartening to get a confirmation of our thoughts. It gives so much strength.
    God be with you. Love

  13. The ONLY truth I know, Ashok, is that GOD is LOVE. Nothing else is truth. God bless you for shining here through your words that show all who come here truth according to God, not man. Thank you! xo

  14. Another inspiring post, thank you. I am immensely grateful to God for having sent Paramhansa Yogananda as my Guru. He shows the way to overcome the separation so that we can feel that oneness, that loveπŸ™πŸ½

  15. The computer crashed while I was answering you – but yes, I had thought that too while reading this article from you, it’s true that there is this real/irreal dimension in our lives and a lot in my project!

  16. I was thinking Barbara that your ALTAIR project is a good example of my concept of Life as a Reality Show ( do read this post again)
    What you are creating is a story and it is not real. But in a way it is real because others can see it and get involved in it. Similarly A movie is real too but the actors and the audience are more real. Barbara is more real than her stories.
    Just like a movie – Our life and our world are real but God is more real πŸ˜‡
    Does it make any sense πŸ€”

  17. Yes princess- let us do that πŸ’–
    Romance with the Divine is the only everlasting romance πŸ’–πŸ€—πŸ’–

  18. That is where we go wrong Barbara- thinking that He is above us somewhere. He is there in every shrub and flower, in every cloud and sun and the moon; and in all our hearts.
    It is a slow process my dear but perfect love is and can only be with the Divine and in knowing that He was always in me; and that I am essentially a pure soul.
    I am sure you will figure it out sooner or later πŸ’–πŸ€—

    Thank you so much for reading and commenting 😊

  19. Thank you so much Jyot. I know you are on the right track and we all keep strengthening each other πŸ’–πŸ€—

  20. β€œOnce we realise that He is the nearest of the near and dearest of the dear, no separation hurts” beautiful beautiful and absolute truth.
    Separation hurts but not when we realize the above truth.

  21. Yes, you’re right – what I meant was that we humans are very weak. I think it’s good to never forget that we are still, often, weak. That way we don’t think we’re perfect – and we’re more likely to really love.

  22. Yes – wonderful thoughts – ❀ but it's hard to understand God's love when you're just a human. It's above us, it's up to us to access it. No ?

  23. “Become love” is indeed the best ideal to live by dear Ashokji. Keep guiding us all. Much love❀ back to you!

  24. Aww such kindness! Ashok is love. We are all meant to be love. Love prevails! πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

  25. Aww such kindness! Ashok is love. We are all meant to be love. Love prevails! πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

  26. I find you are so kind person I know where ever you go you spread love and only love πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡

  27. What a tremendously uplifting post!

    Sanskrit ΰ€…ΰ€¦ΰ₯ΰ€΅ΰ₯ˆΰ€€ ΰ€΅ΰ₯‡ΰ€¦ΰ€Ύΰ€¨ΰ₯ΰ€€ β€˜Non Dualism’ also Greek αΌ“Ξ½ Ο„α½Έ Ο€αΎΆΞ½ β€˜One is All’ is a wonderful thought to meditate on in the early morning!
    It reminds me of something Alistair Crowley once said, which was,
    β€œβ€˜Do what thou wilt,’ shall be the whole of the Law. Love is the Law, love under will.”

  28. Ohhh love this my friend! How powerful! GOD IS LOVE. And Him we are never separated. ❀️❀️❀️

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